Archive - Relational Riffs

Shaping the Relationships that Shape Us

A year in review, excitement for a year to come, and our first relational research round-up!

Jan 7 •

December 2024

20 Tips for Relational Thriving

Using the relationship science we learned in 2024 to flourish in 2025.

Dec 24, 2024 •

15 Books to Strengthen Our Connections

Some of my favorite relational reads from 2024

Dec 17, 2024 •

A Simple Tool to Improve Communication

The power of "knowing your type" (of conversation, that is)

Dec 10, 2024 •

The Relational Power of Self-Compassion

A Q&A with Author, Psychologist, and Self-Compassion Expert, Christopher Germer

Dec 3, 2024 •

November 2024

October 2024

What's the Harm in Keeping a Betrayal a Secret?

Spoiler alert: secret-keeping exacts a cost.

Oct 29, 2024 •

If Peace is Better Than War...

Then why is there so much conflict?

Oct 22, 2024 •

How to Transform Aggravating Differences

Why that which divides you and your partner can become a strength. Or least something far more tolerable.

Oct 15, 2024 •

How to Feel Connected During an Interaction

Hint: It's not about talking. Or not talking.

Oct 8, 2024 •

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