I love this essay so much. Parenthood is much more fun when we find a little humor in it. Just this week I was laughing really hard with one of my therapy clients, and thinking about how connecting humor can be. Those are some of my favorite moments - as a mom and a therapist.
Laughing in therapy is the best, isn't it? So connecting and healing, and, selfishly, it makes a job that can sometimes be a downer a whole lot more fun!
yes! I laugh a lot with my clients and I agree, it's so connecting and normalizing around the ways that we are all navigating life as best we can - and it's quite absurd as it unfolds around us too haha :)
Okay, I loved all of this (especially the part where you give me a shout-out! Thank you!!! Our posts were very well-timed!) The "silent fart" line got a laugh out of my son too. I feel liberated! (But I'm still going to obsess over why his sons keep ripping? Foot parasite???? Razors in his feet???? Or is it because he insists on playing basketball without shoes on?)
This post so resonates with me, I'm definitely proud of how I continue to let go more and laugh more as my mothering years continue. The sentiments of "all that extra "perfect parenting" might not move the needle...and might just leave you burnt out" also flows nicely into a post I'm working on in a similar vein: how to build connection in your partnership by doing less! I'm excited to share it next week :)
This was an excellent newsletter. Being able to laugh at ourselves and our kids (and our mothers with dementia, should we be so fortunate as to live in THAT particular sandwich) is key to not just surviving, but feeling good about surviving. And thank you to you and everyone else (I’m looking at you, Middle Aged Lady Mom, but I don’t know how to tag people…) for reminding me of that!
I love this essay so much. Parenthood is much more fun when we find a little humor in it. Just this week I was laughing really hard with one of my therapy clients, and thinking about how connecting humor can be. Those are some of my favorite moments - as a mom and a therapist.
Laughing in therapy is the best, isn't it? So connecting and healing, and, selfishly, it makes a job that can sometimes be a downer a whole lot more fun!
yes! I laugh a lot with my clients and I agree, it's so connecting and normalizing around the ways that we are all navigating life as best we can - and it's quite absurd as it unfolds around us too haha :)
Exactly--so well put!!!
Okay, I loved all of this (especially the part where you give me a shout-out! Thank you!!! Our posts were very well-timed!) The "silent fart" line got a laugh out of my son too. I feel liberated! (But I'm still going to obsess over why his sons keep ripping? Foot parasite???? Razors in his feet???? Or is it because he insists on playing basketball without shoes on?)
And by the way, the posts were totally not just well-timed. I hadn’t planned to release this today but yours inspired me!
Oh wow! Your post was like the more mature, better written, more informative, less unhinged companion piece mine! We could not have planned it better!
This post so resonates with me, I'm definitely proud of how I continue to let go more and laugh more as my mothering years continue. The sentiments of "all that extra "perfect parenting" might not move the needle...and might just leave you burnt out" also flows nicely into a post I'm working on in a similar vein: how to build connection in your partnership by doing less! I'm excited to share it next week :)
Ooh, I'm into any topic that advises us to do less and I am so curious to see how you'll apply that to partnership!
Yes yes yes YES! This is giving me energy.
You're the best, thank you Eva! And Happy Un-Mother's Day;)!
This was an excellent newsletter. Being able to laugh at ourselves and our kids (and our mothers with dementia, should we be so fortunate as to live in THAT particular sandwich) is key to not just surviving, but feeling good about surviving. And thank you to you and everyone else (I’m looking at you, Middle Aged Lady Mom, but I don’t know how to tag people…) for reminding me of that!
It takes the most special kind of human EVER to find the funny in a situation involving both teens and moms with dementia! Which is why I adore you.
Loved all of this! Humor is so important in parenthood.